100+ ways to do BDSM/male humiliation and female domination. These are ways you could use in your relationship or with one of your cam clients, a slave or a sissy.
My list is taken from scenarios I have used at some point with a slave or a submissive on my shows or from facts that have been reported to me.
Disclaimer: It goes without saying that all of these practices must be done between two consenting adults. I cannot be held responsible for any abuse that occurs as a result of reading this article.
1- Make him sit down to pee: Never let him get up again
2- He can’t talk anymore unless you give him permission
3-He must always wear a Gag(or gag-ball) and must try to talk to you like this (Spoiler: he won’t and will slobber on it like shit)
4-Require your submissive to wear a Humbler and watch him struggle to get up
5- Splash– Ask him to cover himself with any liquids (oils or body fluids)
6- Slapping to the face– Make him stand in front of the cam and force him to slap himself if he dares to make a noise, ask him to slap himself harder and harder.
7- Ask him to spit on himself– Very degrading for the slave covered in his own spit, but don’t give him time to clean up
8- Verbal insults– “You’re a loser”, “You’re a slut”, “You’re a big wanker”, “Cockhead”, “Little cock that will never satisfy any woman”, “Cocksucker”, “Little faggot” to name a few.
9- Humiliation of the small penis– Degradation of his manhood, remind him that no woman would take a 6 cm joke seriously.
10- Writing on the body– Having degrading phrases written on his body in permanent marker, lipstick, or ink. Things like “Pin dick”, “Wanker”, “Premature ejaculator”, “Loser”, “Faggot”, “Submissive bitch” etc…
11- Sperm games– Make him eat his own dirt. Have him lick the floor or make him cum on a salad or sandwich, then make him eat it.
12- Give your submissive the opportunity to jerk off with weird objects– Don’t let him enjoy his masturbation by forcing him to jerk off wearing boxing gloves, mittens, or wrapping his cock in paper. Ask him to masturbate with chilli sauce and don’t let him stop until he comes. You can use many variations.
13- Wear makeup– From discreet lipstick marks to mascara and foundation, ask your slave to wear makeup as you like. Order her to dress in drag for varying lengths of time.
14- Forced Feminization– Take your slave and have her dress up as a woman. Wearing tights or stockings, high-heeled shoes or boots, a dress or skirt, silk blouse, wig and makeup.
15- Ruining his orgasm– Whether it’s after a long time of abstinence or after being heated for hours, having your orgasm ruined while you laugh in his face is humiliating for him.
16- Wearing a Buttplug– Men generally don’t like having their asses touched. So make him wear an anal plug when he’s on a private show with you. Mock him by asking him to sit on a hard plastic seat or wooden bench.
17 – Put handcuffs on him– Make him wear leather handcuffs at all times so that he is well aware that you can restrain him at any time.
18 – Necklace– There’s nothing better for a sex slave than to feel “owned”. So make her wear a pink necklace with sparkly diamonds or with a big “slave” or “slut” sign on it
19 – Don’t let him get up– Forbid him to get up. Make him stay on all fours throughout your show, until you decide to make him stand up.
20- Don’t let him walk– Walking is for real men, not for slaves. Make him crawl on the ground.
21- Perform all tasks with thick mittens or gloves– Ask him to wear thick gloves and then mock him when he tries to perform simple tasks like writing you a word on his keyboard or leaving the show with his mouse.
22- No talking– Take away his right to speak. Make him bark like a dog (once for yes, twice for no)
23- Eating his food off the floor– You can have him pour his food on the floor or by putting it in a dog bowl. Force him to eat on the floor, like a dog.
24- Ask him to buy a humiliating T-shirt. And ask him to go out in public, to go shopping for example. All the while filming to send to his mistress.
25- Ask her to wear a dog collar in public or even a pink ribbon around her neck.
26- Naked, but in panties– Force him to wear only panties when he’s on show with you. This is very humiliating for him.
27- Wear a bell– Around the neck, attached to the balls, hanging from the nipples, free to your imagination. The trick is to have the bell make noise with every movement.
28- Puppy Game– Make him crawl on the floor, bark, play with a dog toy, eat dog biscuits etc.
29- Adult baby– Ask him to wear a diaper and call him a naughty boy. Ask him to drink lots of water and deny him the right to go to the bathroom. Force him to spank himself for being a bad boy, scold him etc.
30-Make him count useless objects– Make it as subtle and mind-numbing as possible. Have him pour a bag of rice on the floor and ask him to count them. Force him to take a handful of cereal, crunch on it, then spit the crumbs on the floor to count the bits. Give him a time limit and torment him with a punishment he’ll hate if he doesn’t have the number for you in time.
31- Force him to kiss his feet– This is not humiliating in itself, but it can be pleasurable for a lot of slaves.
32- Demand him to stay in an unpleasant position, such as the chair-against-a-wall position, and punish him when his muscles shake or when he begs you to stop.
33- Wear a blindfold– A nice blindfold on which you ask him to write phrases like “I suck cock and I like it”, “I’m a cum-drinking slut”
34- Call one of his friends to tell him that his buddy has a small dick and laugh. This is very humiliating for a man. You can also do this on social media, posting it in public.
35- Force him to go to a store and buy a cucumber, lube and condoms– and ONLY those three items. Ask him to provide you with the receipt and make sure it is a store that does not have a self-service checkout.
36- Send him to the pharmacy to buy XXS condoms– Make him go to a female salesperson (the younger the better) and make sure he uses the words “I need small size condoms in XXS”
37- Make him wear thongs under men’s clothes and go out on the street or to work like that – Even if you’re the only person who knows he’s wearing it, he’ll still be incredibly embarrassed.
38-Wearing tight shorts while chaste– Ask him to wear very tight shorts, like the ones for cycling for example, so that the clothing serves his penis.
39- Ask her to go to a makeup store to buy products for you and order her to send them home.
40- Ordain him to urinate on himself and go in public with his pants wet. Do this when he is wearing light colored clothing so it is obvious to those around him.
41-Scold him– Adopting an angry mistress tone, yell at him and call him a naughty boy.
42- Wear a bra under a shirt– Only he and you will know, but it will be incredibly humiliating for him. For extra fun, order him to put talcum powder in his bra so he’s constantly groping himself. Asking him to go out in public like this is a plus.
43-Tell his friends about his sexual quirks– Let them know about his fetish for humiliation and submission, his love for wearing panties, or his enjoyment of licking his own seed off you.
44-The ultimate humiliation– Send pictures of him in genital positions to his best friend.
45- Give him to go get his nails done– Ask him to go to the beautician and make sure he tells everyone how much he loves getting his nails done and have him pick out some pretty bright pink nails
46-Have him walk into a shop dressed like a faggot– High heeled shoes, little puffy dress that shows off his little sissy panties, curly blonde wig and all made up.
47- Ask him to walk home wearing feminine clothes. Give him a time limit so he can’t try to hide and make him hurry.
48- Force him to carry a purse– At regular intervals, have him open it in public to take out a lipstick or powder, apply it to himself, and then put it back in his purse before leaving. Force him to do this in crowded places.
49- Call him by a female name– Use a female name to address him and make sure he responds to it.
50- Wear a visibly feminine blouse– A nice white silk blouse and have him wear it while running errands or in public.
51- Red or purple bra under a white shirt– This underwear will shine through and force him to keep his jacket on at all times. Unless you force him to take it off, of course.
52- Necklace with a bell– Every time he moves, he’ll be reminded of the humiliation of wearing a necklace, coupled with the fact that a little bell keeps ringing.
52-Get him hard when he wears clothes close to his body. This is very unpleasant for a man and extremely humiliating, especially for small penises.
52-Make him rub his cock until he has cum stains on his pants– And ask him not to lift it without your permission.
53-Ask him to show his hands clearly visible and masturbate in front of him, without giving him permission to touch himself. Terribly frustrating for a horny guy!
54- Order to find you a booty call– Why should you do this job? Have him search social media for a guy who fits your criteria, have sex with that guy and send him pictures of you being all happy with it.
55- If you’re in a relationship and your man doesn’t mind, ask him to come to your private show to masturbate or else having sex with you. Order your slave to watch the whole thing without masturbating. As the ultimate humiliation: force him to masturbate and cum in front of your guy’s cock when you’re off camera.
56-If your man agrees, have sex on camera and insult your slave. Call him a loser, a wimp, a guy who can’t make a woman cum, and whatever else comes to mind. Hearing you moan thanks to another guy’s cock and telling him you like real men is even more degrading to him.
57- Ignore him while having sex with your spouse or a booty call in front of the cam – Make him stand or kneel in the corner and ignore him while you’re pleasuring yourself with a guy other than him.
58- Talk on the phone with one of your girlfriends while talking about your submissive, talk about his sexual proclivities, tell your friend that he has a small penis etc… All in front of him on camera.
59- Ask him to have sex with another man. Make him film or take a picture as proof. The ultimate humiliation would be to find him a man with a much thicker cock than his.
60- Look him in the eye while you masturbate– Look him in the eye and let him see the pure pleasure he can never give you.
61- Ask him to wear a chastity toy and force him to mail you the key. You can then play with him from a distance. I know there are a lot of connected toys on the market to allow this kind of practice. With a toy that can be controlled remotely by smartphone.
62-Ask her to give gifts to your lover or boyfriend of the moment. This can be men’s clothes, trips with you etc… Free to your imagination, in any case this is the ultimate humiliation for a submissive.
63- Make him pay for your romantic dates – Whether it’s an expensive meal at a restaurant, a night out, the movies, the theater, anywhere you want to go with your boyfriend, make your submissive pay for it all. That’s all he’s good for.
64- As if that wasn’t enough, send him Uber bills when you travel to see other men.
65-Make him beg to cum– Control his orgasm and ejaculation. Don’t let him cum and let him get frustrated. When you’ve decided, make him ejaculate into his hand or even into a condom and order him to drink the contents. And of course, it is also extremely humiliating for a man to have to get down on his knees and beg for permission to have an orgasm.
Put yourself in his shoes, he’s been jerking off at least once a day for years and suddenly he has to plead at the feet of a powerful woman who doesn’t care about his sexual misery in order to cum.
The humiliation of having to beg for permission to do what real men do when they want to makes this one of the most humiliating things a dominatrix could do.
66- Make him wear feminine panties– Having to wear frilly panties is very humiliating for a submissive. He will probably be deeply ashamed to have to wear women’s underwear. Their confidence will be shattered and the shame of having those panties on in front of a woman will make them a very humiliated slave. You can also force him to wear panties filled with his semen after several weeks of abstinence.
67- Force him to perform anal on himself, in front of you– Because no man wants to feel a thick object inserted into his ass, so have your slave take a dildo or vibrator and ask him to perform anal in front of you, and laugh at him. Make him bend over or get on all fours and have him insert this toy or object slowly, laughing at his moans.
Then ask him to go harder and harder, faster and faster.
68- Force him to suck a dildo or phallic object– Worse than anal, a straight slave will feel humiliated at being forced to perform oral sex. He doesn’t want a cock in his mouth, which makes it a very effective humiliation. Forcing him to get on his knees and perform oral sex on a dildo, teaching him how to suck and lick it and how fast to do it, will be very degrading.
69- Ignore him. This might surprise you, but ignoring a slave is very humiliating. During your show, sit there, reading a magazine, filing your nails, being on the internet or whatever. while he sits silently, desperate for your attention but not getting it. This is a powerful tool to use for a Femdom. A slave worships his mistress, so her sitting in front of him without even considering him affects him deeply.
70- Force him to fuck a pillow on the floor– Allowing your submissive to have orgasms is one thing, but why should he enjoy them? There are many ways to humiliate him. My favorite is to order him to put a cushion on the floor and fuck him like a dog in heat by forcing him to cum in a short period of time. The pillow is not very stimulating and he will certainly have trouble cumming with it, so it is a perfect humiliation for a man to not be able to orgasm in front of a woman. You can laugh, and humiliate him when he does, by sarcastically encouraging him when he’s about to cum for example.
71- Make him lick the toilet– There’s nothing better than having to lick the toilet seat. With a hard, firm tone, mock him and watch your submissive lick his own toilet, first the seat, then the rims and all the way to the bottom. You can also force him to stick his head in the bowl and lick the inside.
72- Make him pee sitting down– It sounds so simple, but making a man sit down to pee is very embarrassing. Being able to stand up and pee anywhere is what being a man is all about. So forcing him to sit down to do it will make him feel emasculated and feminine. When he sits on the toilet, he won’t be able to think about anything other than the days when he could stand up, pull his dick out and pee standing up. Now he has to sit like a woman.
That’s about it. With this great list of humiliations for Femdom, you’ll never run out of ideas. Be aware that this list is non-exhaustive and that there are many other practices to humiliate a submissive guy
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